It’s hard to be yourself. Just yourself.
Sometimes I do pretty well being myself. I know who I am and I walk around being that person. Then, unfortunately, I get sidetracked. I walk around trying to be myself… and everyone else… at the same time.
It’s super tiring. And confusing. And irritating. For me and for everyone around me.
It seems particularly hard lately as we all peek into each other’s lives through our Instagram feeds. Wow, I think. She’s really doing this quarantine thing well. She’s cleaning out her closets. She’s making Easter crafts with her kids. He’s got a new workout plan. I should be doing that. And that. And that.
But then I would be trying to be her. Or trying to be him. Not being myself.
I’ve learned this lesson before. (I’ve been a mom for 25 years, how could I not?) The temptation to be somebody we’re not isn’t a new thing. This particular temptation has been around since the garden at the beginning of time. Since that fateful moment when our mother Eve listened to the serpent’s lies, women have been tempted to try to be someone we’re not. We try to reach out and be it all, actually fooling ourselves into thinking we can be like God in that way.
When I try to be everyone and everything, I lose something unique and important: me.
Each of us carries within us a unique expression of our infinite creator. We are finite; we cannot reflect all that He is. But we can show off our unique angle of his reflection. Hopefully my unique expression of God’s character will encourage you and help you know Him better. And yours will do the same for me.
If we try to be each other, we’re just looking at each other. (And possibly obsessing over each other.) But if we each reflect God as we are uniquely made to do, we lift each other’s heads and point to God.
So let her make her Easter crafts and let him start that new workout plan. You go plant your seedlings. Or read your book. Or rearrange your living room. Or create that recipe you’ve been thinking about. You be you. Do the unique things God has created you to do. You will be happier and so will everyone around you.
So go be yourself. Just yourself. And you will give the world a beautiful glimpse of the character of God.